How to report bullying safely or anonymously

A simple way to tell an adult

Try: 'I need to tell you about something that is making me or someone else feel unsafe. I am worried about people finding out it was me. Can you explain what you will do before I give names?'

You can write it down, use a school form, send an email or ask a friend to come with you. Include what happened, when and where, who may have seen it and what you are worried could happen next.

Ask how anonymous reporting works

• Who receives the report?
• Can the school contact you without revealing your name?
• What happens if someone is in immediate danger?
• How will the person being harmed be checked on?
• How can you add information later?

If you witnessed bullying

You do not have to confront anyone. Check in with the person privately, do not like or forward harmful posts, preserve information you already have and report it to a trusted adult. Tell the adult if you want your identity protected.

Important limits to secrecy

A teacher, carer or other adult may need to share information with people responsible for safety if someone may be seriously harmed, abused or neglected. They should explain this honestly and avoid sharing information more widely than necessary.